Chapter 1230: Both Of Your Ex Husbands Loved You Much

Instead of replying, she simply listened silently.

At this time, however, Professor Lan patted He Xiyan on the shoulder, putting on a comforting smile. “Well, don’t hang on one problem too much. Men usually have drawbacks as well as merits. If his personality is not bad, he would be good to get along with. When faced with betrayal or domestic violence, economic burden or mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict, in my opinion, one should not intensify the conflicts or go to the extremes. Otherwise, one’s marriage could not go on but end in divorce, which was a rather bad result. Every marriage was easily achieved, so everyone should cherish it and be considerate. Don’t get started casually and once starting, one should not give up in a casual way.”

Professor Lan spoke in a serious and sincere way. While speaking, she had been watching He Xiyan, observing the changes in her expression.

He Xiyan, at this time, also looked up at Professor Lan. She nodded at her, indicating that she understood that and that she agreed with her partly.

“Professor Lan, do you think that I always go to extremes?” He Xiyan smiled bitterly and asked. She could notice the meaning hidden in Professor Lan’s words. Probably in Professor’s eyes, the marriage between Ye Hao and her was not supposed to end in divorce.

Professor Lan chuckled, a slight smile flas.h.i.+ng past her face.

She thought about it and then answered, “No, you are not like that at the very beginning. It is what you have gone through that makes you so. You can try to think of some happiness about love instead of focusing on its negative sides. In this way you can feel that even a bad marriage also leaves you some good memories. Time will heal slowly, but the good memories about love will get more and more attractive as time pa.s.ses by like wine. Now, think about the two loving relations.h.i.+ps you have experienced. Weren’t you happy and delighted? Taking your first relations.h.i.+p for instance, you may feel wronged, but you now know that the man whom you think does not love you once actually loves you deeply. Though this love comes too late, he falls in love with you as well. As for your second marriage, though the ending is worse, you are indeed in deep love with your ex-husband and you have spent some time happily together. Why do you have to hang onto those painful memories and hurt? So many years have pa.s.sed after all.”

Professor Lan’s voice turned slower and gentler. Instead of appearing serious, she looked better as well.

He Xiyan nodded.

Well, it was indeed pointless to keep those past pains and miseries in mind.

“Thank you, Professor Lan.” He Xiyan put on a touch of faint smile. She felt somewhat relieved in her heart now, because she seemed to have figured out many problems she was puzzled about before.

“Nothing.” Professor Lan took a few sips of tea and said with a smile, “As a matter of fact, if you take a different perspective to look at some things, you would not be so pessimistic or go to extremes, and it was the same with love. You two ex-husbands love you very much. Although they have hurt you before, yet true love is invaluable and they are giving their most precious thing.”