These self-contradictory words shocked Meng Yan.
To be honest, she didn't get along with Li Xiaoran for a long time, but as she got to know more deeply, the more she felt that this girl was too unusual.
"How do you say this? Don't you feel contradictory?"
"What a contradiction! Many things in this world are not black and white, and many things will be compromised and neutralized. I believe that my husband will love a person forever, but this It doesn't mean that I can't bear the result that he doesn't love me! You see, like you, you have the ability, you can make money to support yourself, you are married in the future, and you are afraid that your man will be unfaithful to you, and then Betrayed you, do you empathize and leave love?" Li Xiaoran asked Meng Yan as she looked at him.
"Why not be afraid? I'll definitely be afraid too!" Meng Yan thought about it and said.
To be honest, her heart is actually afraid of getting married.
She has seen too much love between men and women, but very few of them get a good death in the end.
So, from the beginning, Meng Yan would not believe that a man would give her a long-lasting love.
Li Xiaoran could feel Meng Yan's emotions, so he thought about it and asked, "If you don't have this man, will you have enough to eat? Are you wearing warm clothes?"
Meng Yan was stunned for a moment, then shook her head: "Of course not, I can make money myself, even if I leave those dog men, I can live well!"
"That's right! Then what are you afraid of! The worst outcome is that you return to being single and earn money to support yourself. Even if you have children, you can rely on yourself You have the ability to raise children, so what are you still worried about?" Li Xiaoran asked rhetorically.
"If one day, there really is such a good man for you to meet and give you all the love. You should accept it boldly. Even if he will change his mind in the future, but in the future Who can explain things clearly? As long as you have truly loved each other, it is not a loss. Besides, men and love, when you see it clearly, it is the same thing. Without them, you can still live very handsomely! "
Meng Yan heard Li Xiaoran's words and felt very reasonable, but she still had doubts in her heart.
"It's just a matter of love? Where does it say that you can get out of it. How many infatuated men and women, once they get stuck, they can't get out again!"
Li Xiaoran did not deny this common situation, but said firmly: "So, when a woman likes a man, she can't fall in love, she must have her own thoughts, and can distinguish right from wrong. , Even if you encounter betrayal, don't fall into it, but maintain self-esteem and self-love. Women, no matter when and where, you must love yourself a little bit! Think about it, if you don't even feel sorry for yourself, Do you still expect others to feel sorry for you?"
"Don't love men more than yourself, love yourself more, be independent, not dependent on men, financially independent, you can deal with all troubles. Emotional injury is a common thing, the key is that after injury, you can Can you stand up!"
Such remarks have never been said to Meng Yan.
At this time, Meng Yan has always been in a tangled vortex in terms of emotions.
The experience from childhood to adulthood made her have some disgust and guard against the relationship between men and women.
But she is also a woman, has her own feelings, and is attracted to excellent people.
But the fear in her heart made her shy away and didn't dare to try.
Before this, Meng Yan had been suppressing herself.
But what Li Xiaoran said today seems to have opened a new door for Meng Yan.
"Meng Yan has some things, try it! Only after you taste it will you know if it's worth it. If you haven't tasted it, you'll never know if it's worth it! Remember my words, Never stop loving because of being hurt! The more you are hurt, the more you want to love! Love yourself, love life, and love this world!" Li Xiaoran's voice now penetrated into Meng Yan's ears, Pointed her to a whole new path.
When the carriage arrived, Meng Yan and Li Xiaoran were like good sisters who grew up wearing the same pair of pants.
The son who followed behind was startled when he saw the two people walking hand in hand in an affectionate way.
After that, Zicheng admired her sister-in-law's communication skills.
"This shop is a mom-and-pop shop that specializes in making some of its own and innovative dishes. It only accepts three tables of guests a day, and it needs to be reserved in advance. Those who come to eat here have to It was introduced by a regular customer, otherwise they would not welcome you at all! I brought you here today, and you can come by yourself in the future! But if you come here to eat, you will have to take care of the family in the future. After all, in this place in the capital, the whole There are still many people who oppress the good people!" Meng Yan introduced Li Xiaoran as he led Li Xiaoran into the quiet house.
Li Xiaoran nodded and did not speak, but he still agreed with this business model.
Having craftsmanship and innovating dishes, using this special way to make money is also a special existence.
"Uncle Chuan and Aunt Chuan invited me to taste new dishes today. You smell it, the fragrance has already spread, it seems that this time we have a good time!" Meng Yan sniffed The scent in the air, he said with a smile.
"Then I'm so lucky to be able to taste delicious new dishes!" Li Xiaoran said with a smile.
"No, it only means that you have a relationship with these new dishes!" Meng Yan joked.
As they spoke, the three entered the hall in the mansion.
When a boy saw Meng Yan coming, he immediately greeted him with a smile.
"Sister Meng Yan, you are here at the right time! This dish will be ready soon, you go to the private room and sit down, and I will serve you new dishes in a while!"
"Then I'll wait and see! Come on, Koizumi, my name is Miss Xiaoran! In the future, Miss Xiaoran will also be your guest, so please treat her well!" Meng Yan replied, while Introduce Li Xiaoran.
"Sister Xiaoran!" Koizumi is a very sensible child. Seeing Meng Yan say this, he hurriedly called out with a smile.
Seeing this, Li Xiaoran remembered something, and took out a few candies from his purse.
"Since I called my sister, naturally I can't call it in vain. This is the candy I carry with me to fill my stomach. You can take it and try it. It's a gift from Miss Xiaoran!"
When Koizumi saw these candies, he immediately grinned.
"Thank you, Miss Ran, my sister and I both like to eat candy!" After saying that, Koizumi took the candy and carefully placed it in his purse: "I'll be with my sister in a while. Let's eat candy together!"
Li Xiaoran saw Koizumi say this, so he simply took out a few more and stuffed them into his purse.