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12 Adapted from How to Talk So Kids Wil Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish, Avon Books, New York, 13 Random House Dictionary of the English Language. Unabridged, Random House, New York, 1971, p. 925.

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