Chapter 1033: Removal of Mourning Clothes

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Auntie Xu had long known that this girl was impressive. She was a golden phoenix that could not be trapped in the residence.

When she was vounz, Auntie Xu would often give her pointers.

In the past few years, Auntie Xu had begun to live a luxurious life, so she had placed her focus on teaching the maidservants in the courtyard. She no longer interfered much with Yu Youyaos decisions.

She had originally wanted to come to Jinzhou with Yu Youyao, but Yu Youyao did not want her to come along and suffer. She also could not leave the Yu Garden without someone to take care of it, so she stayed in Xiangping.

The etiquette of removing her mourning clothes was very complicated. With Auntie Xus help, Yu Youyao heaved a sigh of relief.

The 13th of August was the day she would remove her mourning clothes.

Yu Youyao set up an incense table at home to pay respects to her grandmother and burn the Buddhist scriptures she had copied previously. After the memorial ceremony was completed, Auntie Xu sang auspicious words and took off Yu Youyaos mourning clothes.

Yu Youyao knelt on the meditation cus.h.i.+on in her white singlet.

Auntie Xu sprinkled teacup pomelo peel water on Yu Youyao with a bamboo branch. Then, she helped Yu Youyao change into a light green coat dress. After you remove your mourning clothes, youll be wearing plain clothes for the entire month. Then, youll start wearing your usual clothes.

She could only change into her usual clothes in September.

After all the etiquette involved in removing mourning clothes was done, the servants at home carried the pomelo peel water and began to splash it in the courtyard. They packed all the items for the mourning period and replaced them with new ones.

The white lantern hanging under the eaves of the gate was taken down.

It was obvious that the mourning period for the master of this family was complete. Those who came to visit did not have to hide anymore.

This work lasted until night. The entire Jinyuan Garden looked brand new.

Yu Youyao watched quietly, feeling a pang of bitterness.

Auntie Xu patted her shoulder. A woman reaches adulthood when they reach 15 years old. Now that your mourning period is over and youre 16 years old, shouldnt you hold your coming-of-age ceremony too?

Yu Youyao also knew that this matter couldnt be delayed. What do you think, Auntie?

Auntie Xu said, In my opinion, the grander the coming-of-age ceremony, the better. Youre the Eldest Princess, so all the etiquette for your coming-of-age ceremony is according to the standards of the royal family. Its best if you can return to the capital and ask the imperial family and the Yu Clan to step in. However, its a troubling period now. Your reputation in Liaodong has greatly boosted the morale of the people and stabilized the situation in the North. This is what the Imperial Court is happy to see. I dont think the Imperial

Court wants you to return to the capital.

There was a war in front of them. The old citizens of the North should be in a state of panic, but Yu Youyao and the Xie family were encouraging reclamation, promoting green manure, teaching how to make fertilizer, increasing crop production, and driving animal husbandry.

Everything in the North was developing in a good direction. The lives of the commoners were getting better, and the shadow of war did not affect them. All of this was done by Yu Youyao.

To put it bluntly, Yu Youyao was the stabilizing force in the hearts of the commoners in the North. With her around, the North was a pure land filled with hope.

No one wanted her to leave.

Yu Youyao was at a loss. The coming-of-age ceremony was the most important day of an unmarried womans life. She also knew what this day meant to women. However, when it came to this day, she did not know what to do.

Auntie Xu said, l i m afraid Ill have to trouble you.

Yu Youyao shook her head. I dont care about this. Now that the court is in troubled times, its not appropriate to be extravagant. Its good to be polite. Auntie Xu had the same intention. In that case, your coming-of-age ceremony is set for October. Ill discuss with your grandmother later and choose an auspicious day. Send a memorial to the capital and see what the

Imperial Court thinks. Then, well discuss what to do with the coming-of-age ceremony.

The Eldest Princesss coming-of-age ceremony was a big deal, so the Imperial Court would definitely reward her.

Yu Youyao nodded. Well do as you say, Auntie.

Auntie Xu suddenly smiled. Once the coming-of-age ceremony is held, its time to agree on your marriage with King Yue Fei.

Yu Youyao blushed and lowered her head shyly. She whispered, The war hasnt ended yet. How can we get married? I I dont plan to consider this for the time being

She really did not plan to consider this.

However, when she thought of Yin Huaixi, she couldnt help but feel shy.

Auntie Xu shook her head. If you dont consider it, how do you know that

King Yue Fei hasnt considered it? You and King Yue Fei arent young anymore. The three books and six etiquettes are very complicated. Itll take a year and a half. In my opinion, King Yue Fei is waiting for this day.

The Great Zhou Dynasty was in chaos. King Yue Feis ambition would not stop at Youzhou. It would take time to eliminate the calamity of the other countries and calm the internal strife. If they really waited until the war was settled, who knew how long it would take? King Yue Fei was not young anymore, He was in his prime and might not be able to hold on.

Yu Youyaos breathing was a little chaotic. For some reason, images of her being with him in the army appeared in her mind. Her ears were filled with his charming cries, which seemed to be filled with pain and joy, making her feel at a loss. It was as if she knew everything, but also as if she didnt know anything.

But the war in the North Yu Youyaos voice was as soft as a mosquitos. Auntie Xu smiled and said, Thats not surprising. Most of the generals are marching to war outside, so its inevitable that marriage will be delayed. We cant just focus on war and not care about filial piety, right? The emperor also believes in marriage. How many generals in ancient times went to the battlefield in marriage robes?

Yu Youyao was speechless. In history, there had been many generals guarding the border city. Not only had the emperor personally bestowed marriages, but he had also sent troops to escort the brides to the border city to get married.

Didnt the Empress have this idea before?

However, she had never expected the Empress Dowager to hold back.

Its time to consider what needs to be considered. Not to mention the war, the Great Zhou Dynasty treats people with filial piety. However, there are three types of unfilialness. The most severe type is to have no descendants. Therefore, its the most important thing to continue the family line.

King Yue Fei has a large army and is in charge of a region. His marriage is also a state matter. Its important to stabilize the North and the country. If the

Empress Dowager hadnt given him a marriage long ago, I think the Imperial

Court would have chosen a good match for him long ago.

Yu Youyao pursed her lips. Therefore, not only would Yin Huaixi!s marriage not affect the war, but it would also greatly calm the hearts of the people in the North.

Auntie Xu knew that she did not like to hear this, so she continued, A man should start a family and establish a career. He should start a family before establis.h.i.+ng a career. Its obvious that in most peoples hearts, a man can only show his true talent and responsibility after starting a family. He can cultivate his body, manage his family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world. As a young general, King Yue Feis family is especially important to him.

A family was closely related to a career. Most people who couldnt settle their families wouldnt have much achievements in their careers.

Yu Zongzheng was an example. At the peak of his life, the parents were kind and the children were filial. He married his virtuous wife, Madam Xie, and established himself in the royal court. After that, he obtained a filial daughter and managed the family. His life almost reached its peak.

However, all of this was an illusion. With Old Madam Yus death and Yu

Youyaos departure, the Yu Residence was only left with chicken feathers. Yu Zongzheng was also beaten back to his original state..